Mabuhay and welcome to the 2008 edition of the Bicoy Beacon! One of the most wonderful aspects of life in Wisconsin is that our kids can enjoy the experience of chopping down our very own Christmas tree. So despite the fact that it was deer hunting season and some 600,000 heavily armed people were walking through the woods shooting at Bambi, we recently thought it would be the ideal time to take a walk to find our Christmas tree.
We meandered down snowy paths and walked through picturesque woods. After hours of searching, we finally found a tree that was Christmas incarnate. It called to mind the words of the poet Alfred Joyce Kilmer:
I think I shall never see
A poem as lovely as a tree
Poems are made by fools like me
But only God can make a tree
This was the most beautiful Christmas tree you could ever find.
It was a gift from above. It was perfect.
So we chopped it down and killed it.
And as we loaded our dying tree into the van, we passed a sign saying that Christmas tree farms produce enough oxygen to keep 9 million people alive every day. According to Bret’s calculations, killing our Christmas tree means that seven people suffocated that night.
Ah, we Bicoys know how to truly keep the holidays special. So Merry Christmas, Happy Hannukah, have a Joyous Kwanzaa, or whatever it is that tickles your fancy. For us, let us just say Mele Kalikimaka,
Cari & Bret
ALYSSA
Alyssa is just a few short months away from her 18th Birthday and will soon graduate from Bay Port High School. We continue to be amazed at how quickly she has grown from our little girl into a woman (well almost, we don’t need to rush it!).
Like her Dad, music has always meant a lot to her and thus she has started taking guitar lessons. Unlike Bret, however, she actually can carry a tune.
Alyssa also recently started her first paid job, working after school at a daycare center. Who knew that watching five little brothers and sisters could actually be a job training program?
She also spent a couple of days each week during the summer volunteering at the Door County Community Foundation and the rest of her days working on her grandfather’s successful Senate re-election campaign. In school she enjoys speech class and has received accolades for her gift of gab. There’s a joke about the Bicoys in there somewhere, but Bret is looking over my shoulder so I’ll just let that one go.
DAVID
David is now in sixth grade and continues to bury his nose in a book every chance he gets. He reads while eating his cereal in the morning, reads in the bathroom, and reads before falling asleep at night.
Besides reading purely for enjoyment, David also decided to participate in his school’s Battle of Books. He and his two teammates must read 60 books during the semester then will compete with other teams by answering questions about what they’ve read. I have a hard time remembering to close the shower curtain so I have no idea how he keeps all those books straight in his head!
When he’s not reading, David practices until he masters whatever it is he is trying to master. First it was magic. David would spend hours mastering the slight of hand necessary to fool everyone around. It’s really quite amazing how he can take a few quarters and make them disappear. Bret doesn’t think it’s special because he says that I didn’t need any practice to learn how to make his money disappear.
After magic, David took up juggling. He spent hours learning all different kinds of juggling techniques. He can do the traditional three ball juggle, but also does a ball over the top throw and can even catch them in his hat (which he still always wears).
And most recently it was a Rubik’s Cube that David has mastered. His sisters like messing it up and timing him to see how quickly he can finish it – and he can in under 2 ½ minutes! Now if he could only master the picking up of his room.
BRET JR.
Bret Jr. shares his parent’s passion for football, but somehow he seems to have his priorities a bit confused. When deciding upon a team, he passed on the Cowboys (shock!) and even the Packers. Instead, Bret Jr. has become a rabid fan of the Atlanta Falcons.
It all started because he wanted his own team and red was a favorite color. The 49ers were out because, well, no one is allowed to cheer for the 49ers in this Cowboys home. The Redskins were unacceptable because the name is really kinda racist. And while the Cardinals were a possibility, we didn’t want our son to have a broken heart every year. So that left the Falcons – and with the way they’ve been playing, it has only fed Bret Jr.’s passion.
All he wanted for his birthday was a Falcons jersey and a Build-a-Bear (one of those stores in which you stuff your own bear) which came complete with a Falcons outfit. And thanks to the wonder of satellite television, he gets to watch every Falcons game. I could tell you what a good fourth grade student he is and what a nice young man he is becoming, but Bret Jr. wanted me to make sure to tell you all about his love for the Falcons. That boy sure knows how to commit!
KEKOA
And as we loaded our dying tree into the van, we passed a sign saying that Christmas tree farms produce enough oxygen to keep 9 million people alive every day. According to Bret’s calculations, killing our Christmas tree means that seven people suffocated that night.
Ah, we Bicoys know how to truly keep the holidays special. So Merry Christmas, Happy Hannukah, have a Joyous Kwanzaa, or whatever it is that tickles your fancy. For us, let us just say Mele Kalikimaka,
Cari & Bret
ALYSSA Alyssa is just a few short months away from her 18th Birthday and will soon graduate from Bay Port High School. We continue to be amazed at how quickly she has grown from our little girl into a woman (well almost, we don’t need to rush it!).
Like her Dad, music has always meant a lot to her and thus she has started taking guitar lessons. Unlike Bret, however, she actually can carry a tune.
Alyssa also recently started her first paid job, working after school at a daycare center. Who knew that watching five little brothers and sisters could actually be a job training program?
She also spent a couple of days each week during the summer volunteering at the Door County Community Foundation and the rest of her days working on her grandfather’s successful Senate re-election campaign. In school she enjoys speech class and has received accolades for her gift of gab. There’s a joke about the Bicoys in there somewhere, but Bret is looking over my shoulder so I’ll just let that one go.
DAVID David is now in sixth grade and continues to bury his nose in a book every chance he gets. He reads while eating his cereal in the morning, reads in the bathroom, and reads before falling asleep at night.
Besides reading purely for enjoyment, David also decided to participate in his school’s Battle of Books. He and his two teammates must read 60 books during the semester then will compete with other teams by answering questions about what they’ve read. I have a hard time remembering to close the shower curtain so I have no idea how he keeps all those books straight in his head!
When he’s not reading, David practices until he masters whatever it is he is trying to master. First it was magic. David would spend hours mastering the slight of hand necessary to fool everyone around. It’s really quite amazing how he can take a few quarters and make them disappear. Bret doesn’t think it’s special because he says that I didn’t need any practice to learn how to make his money disappear.After magic, David took up juggling. He spent hours learning all different kinds of juggling techniques. He can do the traditional three ball juggle, but also does a ball over the top throw and can even catch them in his hat (which he still always wears).
And most recently it was a Rubik’s Cube that David has mastered. His sisters like messing it up and timing him to see how quickly he can finish it – and he can in under 2 ½ minutes! Now if he could only master the picking up of his room.
BRET JR.Bret Jr. shares his parent’s passion for football, but somehow he seems to have his priorities a bit confused. When deciding upon a team, he passed on the Cowboys (shock!) and even the Packers. Instead, Bret Jr. has become a rabid fan of the Atlanta Falcons.
It all started because he wanted his own team and red was a favorite color. The 49ers were out because, well, no one is allowed to cheer for the 49ers in this Cowboys home. The Redskins were unacceptable because the name is really kinda racist. And while the Cardinals were a possibility, we didn’t want our son to have a broken heart every year. So that left the Falcons – and with the way they’ve been playing, it has only fed Bret Jr.’s passion.
All he wanted for his birthday was a Falcons jersey and a Build-a-Bear (one of those stores in which you stuff your own bear) which came complete with a Falcons outfit. And thanks to the wonder of satellite television, he gets to watch every Falcons game. I could tell you what a good fourth grade student he is and what a nice young man he is becoming, but Bret Jr. wanted me to make sure to tell you all about his love for the Falcons. That boy sure knows how to commit!KEKOA
Kekoa isn’t the biggest third grader in Suamico, but he might very well be the busiest. If there’s some new activity to sign up for, be it in school or after it, you can always count on Kekoa to give it a try with all his might.
Kekoa loves football, both watching and playing it. He’s a huge Dallas Cowboys fan and is always wearing any of his different Cowboys caps. Kekoa is like his brothers – who all take after their father and their Grandpa Bernie. They all just love wearing their hats! Who knew that Bicoy men were like the Queen of England?
Kekoa’s not nearly heavy enough to play tackle football, but he was first in line to play flag football this fall. What he lacks in bulk he makes up for in incredible, unrelenting hustle. He never stops moving on the football field and plays with an intensity that belies his modest stature. Wherever the ball is, you can expect to find Kekoa nearby.He also recently started studying Tae Kwon Do. He is learning his “forms” well and just took his first exam to move up from a white belt to a yellow belt. Sometimes kids emulate their parents in ways you don’t expect. Kekoa loves to study this Korean martial art and his father loves to eat Korean food. Bret says it’s kinda the same thing – yeah, I guess, if you’re crazy!
Kekoa is a good student and his favorite subject is math. He ran for vice-president of the student council and while he was disappointed that he didn’t win, we were very proud of his willingness to try.
NALANINalani is still the most charming and outgoing of little girls. She’s now in first grade and her teacher says that she is little miss popularity. The downside for us as parents is that Nalani is always invited to everyone’s birthday party, to sleepovers at all her friend’s houses, and is always going down the street to play with the neighbors!
When our social butterfly isn’t off trying to get her way with a wink and a smile, she is in her dance class. Last year it was ballet, this year it’s tap dancing. While it’s stereotypical to say so, this young lady really loves everything girly – from dancing, to shoes, to dressing up in her favorite new outfit. She really is a girly girl.
Nalani also loves drawing, singing songs and making up stories as she goes along. She is always creating something new and shares it with everyone around her. Nalani has a wonderful imagination and uses it to dream up some fanciful stories. While I try to nurture that within her, all Bret keeps saying is great, a pretty girl who charms everyone and is good at making up stories – he just can’t wait until her teenage years begin.
MALIA
Malia recently turned five years old, but it was just a little too late for her to start kindergarten this year. So our youngest child remains a little girl staying home with her mommy just a bit longer.
For her birthday Malia also wanted to build her own teddy bear at the mall, which she did and named Flower Rose Bicoy.
We all thought she wanted to do so only because Bret Jr. and Nalani both built their own bears before her. However, we’ve been amazed to see that Malia has made Flower Rose her most prized friend. She dresses her bear every morning in any of a variety of outfits, accessorizes (don’t we all), and even puts on her pajamas to wear to bed!
Being the only one at home with mommy during the day also has its advantages. I let her watch one television show in the morning and she gets to choose the program all by herself.You’d understand what a treat that really is if you had five bossy older brothers and sisters who usually dominate the remote control!
BRET & ME
We’re doing real well as a family and are glad to be home in Wisconsin. When he’s not cheering for the Cowboys or trying to find a good Korean restaurant, Bret leads the Door County Community Foundation – a modest charitable foundation based in Sturgeon Bay. Door County is without question the most beautiful part of Wisconsin. Its population swells during the summer as people come for the picturesque views of the Lake, charming little villages, live theatre and music festivals. Bret says he is really lucky to work there every day. He also does some private consulting on the side through his firm - Bicoy Philanthropic Advisors - helping charities do their work just a little bit better. He’s done well enough this year that he’s even been able to include some of his old friends from time to time to work with him on specific projects.After a number of years of being a stay-at-home mom chasing after six little kids, I thought I wanted to go back to work and rejoined Schneider National earlier this year. However, it took only a few months for me to see how much I missed taking care of my family. So after talking it over with my husband, I left Schneider and returned to spending my days picking up Bret’s socks and making him dinner (what an understanding guy he is).
Our life is wonderful and we are luck to be surrounded by friends and family.
We hope you are as blessed as we are.
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